Carolyn Hax: Her family left all the kitchen work to her, so she went on strike

Dear Carolyn: I’ve been simmering in rage and frustration at my family for two years and haven’t come up with a better solution — so I’ve gone on kitchen strike.

I live with my husband, our preteen child and my mother-in-law, who popped in for “a weekend” during covid and simply never left. My husband and I both work demanding jobs, but he returned to the office a while ago and I’m still teleworking.